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Crafted Coordination – A Kick Butt Workshop for Wedding Planners

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November 21 – 22, 2015
Mims House – Holly Springs, NC

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You have two options at this very moment. Option #1 is choosing to be lazy and read the CliffNotes as to what this blog is about. If that sounds up your alley, the next paragraph will give you the highlights and you can stop reading there resting assured you could at least make a “C” on the test. Option #2 is choosing to be a curious little kitten and wanting more than just a summary. You have full permission to be nosey, read the entire blog and get the inside scoop.

I am proud to introduce Crafted Coordination, a kick butt workshop for aspiring wedding planners and budding entrepreneurs in the wedding industry. The first conference will be held on November 21 – 22, 2015 at the Mims House in Holly Springs, North Carolina. The website will be live very soon and registration is already open. It’s really easy. Just click this link, sign up and learn how to ditch that day job and fulfill your dream of becoming a full-time wedding planner. And because I’m sweet as sugar, there’s a special discount for those early birds who register prior to October 5th. In summary, if you are toiling with the idea of becoming a wedding planner, if you are a new and aspiring wedding planner, if you’re someone in a creative field, if you’re wondering about how I started and have maintained a growing wedding planning business, you should sit your tush in one of the available seats at this one-of-a-kind workshop for wedding planners, by a wedding planner.

For those of you who decided to stick around and learn more, welcome. I feel like you deserve to learn a little bit about the motivation behind hosting Crafted Coordination. Starting any small business is tough. Starting a wedding planning business isn’t ridiculously difficult. Making a living by owning a wedding planning business is the tough part. I started Orangerie Events in 2008 with very little support. I closed my eyes and jumped feet first into an industry I knew little about and without a mentor. I had no clue what I was doing or what was in store.

I learned quickly how competitive the wedding industry is and specifically how protective wedding planners are in regards to their businesses. It was a waste of a good email to ask a fellow planner in the market for advice on getting started. To be quite frank, breaking into the industry is a lot like high school. Like changing schools in the middle of the year and becoming the new kid in class. You’re timid. You’re a bit clueless. You’re immediately judged and classified. And you’re very receptive to the divide between the outsiders and the cool kids. Finding where you fit in becomes the first hurdle and often times the first taste of rejection.

I made 3,423 mistakes. I tiptoed around the feelings of other planners in order to not make them feel threatened or betrayed. I listened to the gossip and frequently became the subject of it. I disappointed clients due to growing pains and poor judgement. I lost money. I cried, a lot. I barely escaped getting a divorce. And this past year, I was betrayed and burned by people within my industry and to an extent that made my head spin and question every single decision I had made in starting the business. I let it temporarily drag me down until one day I decided that I wouldn’t continue to succeed in spite of them but I would succeed despite them. And that’s when the little flame of desire to help others ignited into a full fledge inferno.

I don’t want to be like my predecessors. I don’t need to hold my secrets to success hostage. I want to inspire and encourage a new generation of wedding planners that fire each other up in a positive way and not in a “I’m going to burn your business cards” kind of way. I want to be transparent with exactly who I am and not hide behind a deceiving facade I’ve led everyone to believe is the truth through my pretty Instagram pictures and cute quotes. I guarantee this workshop will be open, honest to the core and full of real talk. I’ll discuss what I’m doing, how I do it, how to break into the industry, how much money I make, the tools I use, where my business is going, how I’ve made mistakes and how I built a brand that attracts my ideal clientele.

There will always be cliques within any industry and especially within the wedding world. And if I have to be in a clique, I want it to be a compassionate one full of people boasting community over competition. I receive hundreds of emails each year from girls in college, stay-at-home-moms and people working unfulfilling jobs who want to know how I did it and what they should do. Well now’s your chance for an unfiltered look behind-the-scenes and a rare opportunity to become BFFs with someone who has been where you are and is still swimming after jumping off the deep end.

If you have any questions, please feel free to reach out via email at hello@craftedcoordination.com. Registration is officially open and stay tuned for the website launch announcement. Be sure to follow us on Instagram to keep up with the latest and greatest happenings! I can’t tell you how excited I am to make a tiny contribution to the uprising of a community of connected and positive planners. Let’s do this! (And yes, Sun Drop slushies for everyone!)

P.S. – If you’re a vendor and would like to participate, please reach out! At the very least, please feel free to share this so it can spread like wildfire!

xoxo, Priscilla
Blush, Green and Gold Military Wedding at The Oaks at Salem

I have a secret super power. Don’t tell anyone. Very few people know but it’s quite incredible. I can change out of normal clothes and into lounge clothes at the speed of light. No joke. It usually happens within a matter of minutes after my key is inserted into my apartment door. I walk into my humble abode fully dressed in a stylish work-appropriate outfit and within 60 seconds, my bottom half is swimming in a pair of oversized Victoria’s Secret sweatpants while my upper half sports a 20 year old ratty, majorly ripped, faded but the softest you’ve ever worn in your life t-shirt. My ability to go from chic to frumpy has been compared to a magician who starts off wearing a white ice-skater-like leotard, shimmies down into a hula hoop and emerges in a sequined red ballgown. I can’t explain it. My name is Priscilla and I commonly mispronounce words, was in bed before the sun went down Saturday night and I legitimately look forward to putting on my pajamas.

If anyone could make a burlap sack look good, it would be Hope. And it’s not just because she’s stunningly beautiful on the outside. It’s because the inside matches. I had the delight of meeting Hope a few years ago when she came to work for Orangerie Events. I was mesmerized by her grace and poise and was delighted when she joined the team. And even though her time with the company wasn’t permanent, our friendship was and I was flattered when she asked me to coordinate her wedding day.

Hope’s wedding day was ridiculously beautiful. And a stark contrast from the day before. Seriously, during her rehearsal, most of us were wet and cold from the torrential downpours and abnormally cold temperatures. But the wedding day was a canvas of perfection. Strokes of sunlight beaming down. A Carolina blue sky. A blowing veil. A flawless bride and her dapper gentleman. Hope and Zach are basically the equivalent to Barbie and Ken somehow metamorphosing from plastic figurines to living human beings.

A heartfelt thanks to the dream team of vendors who made working this wedding so easy. And an extra pat on the back to Graham Terhune for continuing to blow my mind with his amazing photography skills. And in case you want a double dose of this stunner of a wedding, check it out on Style Me Pretty because that’s how we roll.

I hope each of you enjoy your evening tonight and if you’re anything like me, you’ll be glued to the television catching up on the Real Housewives of Orange County as they tackle Tahiti, in your three sizes too big sweatpants and two decades too old t-shirt of course. Until next time.

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Photographer: Graham Terhune

Coordinator:  Orangerie Events

Venue: The Oaks At Salem

Catering:  Belle’s Catering

Florist:  Brides And Bouquets

DJ:  McSound Productions

Videographer:  K2 Productions

Wedding Dress: Maggie Sottero

Cake: Sugarland

Bridesmaids’ Dresses: Wtoo

xoxo, Priscilla
Five Tips for Attending a Bridal Show Video Blog

There’s an adorable video of four-year-old me singing “If I Had a Little Black Box” for my friends and family. Even at a really young age, I loved performing and being in front of a crowd. I was fortunate to have a best friend growing up who enjoyed the spotlight as much as I did and the two of us devoted all of our free time to writing songs, creating routines and dominating whatever talent show we possibly could with our in-sync dance moves and blended harmonies. (Shout out to the Hudson Middle School and South Caldwell High School cheerleaders who forced us to sing “Plane of Love” repeatedly on every bus ride.)

We honestly didn’t care what anyone thought about our performances. Hence the reason we dressed up as jailbirds and performed “Jailhouse Rock” or decked ourselves in army attire and performed “Boogie Woogie Bugle Boy.” We frequently sang at local festivals, at church and even auditioned for a reality TV singing competition on CMT when we were in our twenties. Although we only made it past the second round, I was incredibly proud of us for trying and for putting ourselves out there.

I’m a bit more critical of myself than I was back then. It’s easy to watch yourself on camera and pick apart the flaws because they’re so visible. I cringed when I showed this pre-edited video to a friend to get their opinion. I was legit sweating. Like sweating to where the armpits on my shirt were wet. I’m a professional at hiding behind my words on a blog but a video blog is different.  It’s exposing. It’s vulnerable. It’s easily subjected to ridicule and judgement. It’s challenging. And that’s the very reason I’ve decided to embark on something that pushes me outside of my comfort zone.

So here it is. The very first of many video blogs. Go easy on us. We’re newbies and still learning how this is going to work. I can’t promise perfection. We’re going to stumble over our words, make weird faces and our country twang is going to be very evident. But I can promise we’re going to give you some helpful information with a fun delivery style in order to help you plan your wedding or maybe even just plan a weeknight dinner. Every month we’ll post a new short and sweet video for your viewing pleasure or perhaps for your comedic relief. Since we’re in the midst of engagement season and lovebirds are in the beggining stages of planning their wedding and more than likely going to bridal shows, we’ve decided to center our first video around our “Top Five Tips for Attending a Bridal Show.” We filmed this video while participating in a local bridal show and sincerely hope it gives couples some tips before they embark on the wedding show frenzy. Until next time.

 

xoxo, Priscilla
Orangerie Events Headquarters + Welcome Nicole

Can you believe we are 16 days away from Christmas? When and how did that happen? It’s not beginning to look a lot like Christmas in my life. I have a confession. I didn’t put up a Christmas tree. How big of a Grinch does that make me? I contemplated it and I would still love to have one but it doesn’t make sense. Our apartment is small. Like really small. So there’s no room. And then we leave the week of Christmas for Hickory and we won’t even be in the space to really celebrate or admire it. So I’m brainstorming alternate ways to get into the Christmas spirit. Because you know what doesn’t make you sing “Fa-la-la-la-la?” Driving to Youngsville to pick up tubs of Christmas decor, squeezing a tree inside an already tight space and vacuumming needles every day due to being OCD.

Despite my lack of decorating, one Christmas gift did come a little early for me and that’s this gal.

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Boys and girls, please meet my new and ridiculously awesome sidekick, Nicole Goodrich. Remember my last post when I announced the venue adventure with my partner Brooke and I claimed I would only be taking a certain number of clients from that point forward? I wasn’t joking around. That was for real and that’s where this fabulous chick comes in to play.

She’s taking over where I leave off and is my numero uno. I can’t even begin to describe what a rock star she is but honestly if I would have rubbed a magic lamp and asked for the most awesome wedding planner to join my business, the genie would have given me her.

To celebrate our joining of forces, we decided to do a little photo shoot at the Orangerie Events Headquarters, conveniently located in downtown Raleigh. I knew within a week of moving into Raleigh from Youngsville that having an office in Wake Forest wasn’t conducive with my life anymore and decided to relocate. Why not move a house and an office at the same time? Who doesn’t like a little chaos? And if it isn’t already evident by the clients we’ve worked with and the weddings we’ve produced, we aren’t your stereotypical wedding planning company and hence our office isn’t the standard girly or lackluster space. It’s an explosion of color and whimsy and imagination. And how about that fantastic chalkboard? My mother-in-law whipped that up in a little over an hour.  Unreal.  If you’re looking for chalkboard art or furniture design and rental, check out her buisness Oblige Designs. And if you’re ever out dining at the Busy Bee or grabbing a quick coffee at Joule, be sure to stop by and say hello because we’re right next door. We have Sun Drop slushes after all.

Our hats, or crowns, go off to Julie Livingston who masterfully captured our humble abode as well as our smiling faces. I hope you’ll enjoy an inside look at where we spend our time and read below to learn a little more about Nicole, who ironically enough, was born on Christmas Day. See how I brought this post completely full circle? Until next time my loves.

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Carolina girl born and raised, I set off to New York City after getting my degree at Clemson University. For more than 6 years, I had the pleasure of planning hundreds of weddings, corporate events, non-profit galas, mitzvahs and numerous other social gatherings.

Highlights of my career include the planning of Christina Ricci’s intimate star-studded Manhattan wedding, producing fashion shows for Mercedes Benz Fashion Week, planning events for numerous Fortune 100 companies, and everything in between!

A self-proclaimed foodie, you can usually find me and my boyfriend Rob scouting out the newest restaurant downtown or whipping up something delicious in our own kitchen. My other passions include – Reality TV, Cupcakes, sparkling wine, and dancing! (I’m usually the first one breaking it down on the dance floor).

I absolutely love planning weddings and am so excited to be back in the south where the weddings are romantic, the food is delicious, and the couples are sweet as pie! My goal is to keep the planning process fun and allow YOU to be a guest at your own event. I can’t wait to work with you!

 

xoxo, Priscilla
Romantic Summer Wedding at Merrimon Wynne in Raleigh

I’m going to let you in on a little secret. It is very possible that the teeny tiny Erwin family may be moving. Don’t freak. Nothing crazy. But we did receive an offer on our home. I suppose our technical classification right now would be “sale pending.” I’m not going to go into too much detail because I don’t want to count my chickens before they hatch, but should this deal transpire, I will certainly blog about this experience as well as how funny and ironic timing can be.

In the meantime, our lives are about to potentially significantly downsize. Should all go to plan, we’ll lose about 1,200 square feet and move into a one-bedroom apartment and begin the process of finding land and building a home. This reduction in space means a reduction in stuff. Therefore, I would like to give you advance warning that I’ll be having a massive yard sale on Saturday, August 16. I’m sure you’re puzzled as to why I’m telling you this far in advance but fear not, I have valid reasons.

  1. The yard sale will take place at my home. Which is in Youngsville. Which means even if you live in Raleigh, you need to actually make plans to travel into my neck of the woods since it’s not just a quick trip around the corner.
  2. I have a lot of wedding stuff that I’ll be unloading. I’m talking vases, candleholders, lanterns and all sorts of wedding knick knacks. I don’t want or need them anymore. So if you’re planning a wedding, you just might find some good stuff at my yard sale as well as some random things. Like 100 brightly multi-colored cotton napkins.
  3. A longer notice means more time for you to help spread the word. Seriously. Tell people. I don’t want to move what we don’t need and since we’ll be downsizing and simplifying when we do actually build, I don’t want it to sit in storage. I’d much rather it serve a purpose for someone else.

So take note, there’s a yard sale coming up soon and you should go. And if you don’t go, you should at least tell a friend. And if you don’t tell a friend, you should at the very least keep reading and check out this gorgeous wedding I had the honor of designing and coordinating at Merrimon Wynne in Raleigh last month.

I adored Sarah. She was soft-spoken with a heart full of grace. And she was trusting. She told me things she liked, details that sparked her interest and trusted me to pull it together. I remember meeting with her and her stating that she loved looking through wedding magazines and hoped for a wedding that would be as beautiful as those gracing the pages. Judging by these stunning photos from Robyn Van Dyke and the fact the wedding has already been scouted out by a wedding blog, I’d say it was a success.

Although their wedding was overall a romantic and organic display, Sarah and Cameron’s wedding was all about the details. Details that were meaningful and powerful. We filled the house with Bible verses and quotes about love. We added sprigs of rosemary to each place setting. A dessert hutch was styled with miniature desserts and props. Pewter chandeliers were adorned with fresh greenery. A custom backdrop was designed (by my talented mother-in-law) for the cake. Cheerwine favors were displayed perfectly for guests to take as they exited. Beauty is in the details and this wedding was no exception.

Trends are constantly changing. Especially in the wedding world. But Sarah and Cameron’s wedding was timeless. One of those that reflected a couple’s marriage and not just their wedding. As for other things constantly changing, a huge one is about to occur in my life and if you have any tips or tricks for moving everything you own, please feel free to share.

I couldn’t have timed the last few weeks more perfectly if I tried. And trust me, because I’m a planner, I’ve tried. Here’s to hoping every last one of those chickens shatter their shells.

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Coordination + Design: Orangerie Events

Photographer: Robyn Van Dyke Photography

Ceremony Location: Church of the Apostles

Reception Location: Merrimon Wynne House

Videographer: Oak City Studios

Catering: Belle’s Catering

Flowers: Brides & Bouquets

Cake: Whole Foods

Band: Swingin’ Richards

Tent, Tables, Chairs & Lighting: Party Reflections

Linens: CE Rental

Custom Signs + Cake Backdrop: Jennifer Erwin

xoxo, Priscilla
Spring Wedding at the Merrimon Wynne House in Raleigh

I’m addicted to “Orange Is the New Black.”  Like completely addicted. I finished the first season last night and am itching to watch the next episode.  I think watching so much of it before falling asleep has infiltrated my subconscious because last night I had a dream that I was in a relationship with Beyonce’.

My friend Brooke had recommended I start watching the show months ago and I’m regretful I didn’t listen to her then.  She didn’t warn me that I would probably need tissues for the first episode.  Speaking of this amazing friend, she hosted a Great Gatsby themed 30th birthday party this past Saturday that I can’t wait to tell you about it.  It was the cat’s meow.  I’ll definitely go into greater detail once the professional pictures are completed but the short of the story is basically we treated her party as if we were movie stars and bought amazing dresses and had our hair and make up done.  We are not fans of spray tans as we almost had to change the theme to something more Jersey Shore-ish.  It’s easy to confuse a 50-gallon champagne fountain with a 5-gallon champagne fountain.  And finally, I’m blaming my aching knees on the high heels I was wearing while dancing and not on the fact that I’m getting old and it’s hard to drop it like it’s hot without pulling a muscle.

My past bride, Lacey, resembles one of the characters on the show.  Like a total doppelgänger.  Only Lacey is even more gorgeous than Officer Fischer.  Therefore, watching the show made me think about her and then made me think about finally showcasing her amazeballs wedding.  I was so excited to plan and design Lacey and Robert’s big day and ecstatic to work for the first time at the new venue in Raleigh, the Merrimon Wynne House.  When we started talking about her wedding, she had a few requirements.  First, it had to be colorful.  Bright and cheery.  Like a box of crayons came to life.  Secondly, the reception needed to be held under a canopy of market lights.  No tent.  I had to pull some major strings and send some frequent and repeated prayers to make that one happen.  And third, we needed to subtly incorporate birds without giving the groom a panic attack.  The result?  Well just take a look at the pictures below.  It stands among one of my favorite weddings I’ve ever had the privilege of planning.

The cast lineup for this wedding was incredible and the final result would not have been possible with each and every single one of them.  It also would not been possible with the sweet couple and their equally sweet family who welcomed me as if I was one of their own.  So if you need a little break from what you’re doing, scroll down and peruse the stunning pictures from Ashley McCray Photography.  If you want a longer break, go get yourself sucked into “Orange Is the New Black” and thank me later.

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Ceremony + Reception Venue: Merrimon Wynne House

Planning + Design: Orangerie Events

Photographer: Ashley McCray Photography

Florist: Brides & Bouquets

Videographer: Silver Feather Studios

Custom Painted Wedding Signs: Jennifer Erwin

Ceremony Music: Arioso Strings

Caterer: Cook Shack

Cake: Cakes by Chloe

Linens + Rentals: CE Rental

Lighting: Peelman Productions

Photo Booth: Wake Forest Portrait Studio

Transportation: Elite Coach

Hair + Make Up: Nicole Murphy

Wine Barrel Rentals: Themeworks

xoxo, Priscilla
Beautifully Blush Wedding at All Saints Chapel and Stockroom 230

Does anyone want to buy a house?  No, seriously.  I’d really like for someone to buy my house.  Thankfully we aren’t in a position where we are on a time crunch to get it sold or in a financial crisis but I’m starting to get really excited about what’s next and the fact that I have no timetable as to when that’s going to happen is starting to annoy me.

We’ve had three showings.  Not bad but not great.  I’m hoping my freshly laundered undies sitting atop my bedroom dresser didn’t deter the last showing.  That’s what happens when you aren’t expecting a showing and are in a meeting when you get the “Can we show your house in 10 minutes?” call.  I’m also not complaining about having the house on the market because it’s given me an extended excuse to have Sany and her crew come in and clean the house from top to bottom every few weeks.  I can’t tell you how much I haven’t missed scrubbing the shower or mopping the floors.  It’s completely worth the eye rolls I get every few Fridays.

Speaking of which, next time I catch grief about having Sany clean the house, I’ll just remind Chase about how he recently got into a fight with a wasp on our front porch and cracked a gigantic piece of our siding with a broom.  I took less of a UFC  approach and went to the grocery store to buy wasp spray.  Take a guess at which method worked.

I think I’m most excited about simplifying our life.  We have so much wasted space for just two people and a canine.  We also have too much silly stuff.  Stuff just sitting in closets, in boxes and sitting in the attic doing absolutely nothing but collecting dust.  When we finally do move, I don’t want to take with us all of that stuff.  I’ll honestly probably sell every single thing I possibly can.  Except for my farmhouse dining room table that I didn’t tell Chase we were getting and just showed up with one day.  I guess a dining room table is a little more subtle than the new car I just showed up with on another day.  Did I ever mention how I have this deep-rooted issue with proclaiming my independence?  I’ve since learned those actions were really selfish and probably not the smartest decisions for a successful marriage.

Something tells me that Sarah and Luke aren’t going to have any issues with a successful marriage.  They are a seriously adorable couple.  There’s a few notable things that I adored about this couple and their wedding:

  1. They met at a bowling class in college at NC State.
  2. I introduced Sarah’s mom to Sun Drop slushies and she loved them.  So much so she asked for seconds during one of our meetings.
  3. The groom’s brother, who was the best man, gave the most heartfelt toast at the reception. I usually keep my emotions in check at weddings but I couldn’t help tearing up while listening to him speak about how proud their father would have been of Luke.
  4. Sarah looked drop dead gorgeous on her wedding day.  Not that she wasn’t beautiful every time I saw her but typically she came in straight from work and would be in scrubs with her hair up.  She was perfection in that gown.
  5. In lieu of a guest book, the couple had guests sign a canvas with the state of North Carolina painted in the center.  We placed the cutest little sign next to the painting politely asking guests to not sign on the state but around the perimeter.  I periodically checked throughout the night and I’m happy to report we made it until the last 30 minutes without having someone sign inside the state. Since I enjoyed the best man’s speech so much, I decided to let him get away with not following the signing rules.
  6. The Raleigh Trolley ran into the parked car of a guest about five minutes before the ceremony.  Ok, maybe I didn’t adore that about their wedding but it is something I’ll never forget.

It was a beautiful April wedding ceremony at All Saints Chapel with a reception following at The Stockroom 230.  Even though the couple maxed out the space with about 180 guests, Unforgettable Food Affairs had no problem providing an amazing dinner.  The couple opted to display the cutest cutting cake baked by Sweet Traditions by LeAneCE Rental provided the luxurious linens while Gregg Kennedy with Brides & Bouquets added a touch of romance with the personal bouquets and reception flowers.  He even voluntarily lent a helping hand in setting up the ceremony space.  Blue Light Entertainment kept the dance floor packed right up until the moment Sarah and Luke departed in a rickshaw provided by Crank Arm Rickshaw.  And during that departure, at the end of a long day, Sarah’s make up still looked flawless because Perfection by Patricia knows how to rock it.

Reliving this beautiful wedding day wouldn’t be possible without the amazing and talented Julie Livingston Photography.  I always enjoy working with someone with such a sweet heart, incredible eye and wonderful personality.  She’s a gem.

It’s the simple things in life sometimes.  A single rose sitting in a vase.  A shared affection for Sun Drop slushes.  Signing inside the state.  A baby’s breath bouquet.  A hug from a grateful bride at the end of her wedding day.  A house that fits.  Simple doesn’t mean boring.  I’m looking forward to making my life not any less significant but much more simpler.

 

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Ceremony Location: All Saints Chapel

Reception Location: Stockroom 230

Coordination: Orangerie Events

Photographer: Julie Livingston Photography

Caterer: Unforgettable Food Affairs

Florist: Brides & Bouquets

Cake: Sweet Traditions by LeAne

DJ: Blue Light Entertainment

Linens: CE Rental

Lighting: Themeworks

Make Up: Perfection by Patricia

Rickshaw: Crank Arm Rickshaw

xoxo, Priscilla
Rustic Wedding at the Fair Barn in Pinehurst

As much as you can try to avoid and prevent it, life is always full of conflict.  We’re imperfect beings who have different ideas, tolerances, beliefs and expectations.  We see it on the news every day.  This person fighting with this person.  This country hates this country.  Voices escalate.  Tempers flare.  Bombs explode.

I hate conflict.  I loathe disagreements.  I despise sticky situations that make me uncomfortable.  When something with someone goes array and I know a confrontation is imminent, my brain goes haywire.  There’s a constant flood of lyrics streaming as to what I’m going to say.  The points I’m going to make are bulleted, clear and concise.  A few are bleeped out.  My confidence is through the roof and I have no doubt that after the altercation, the other person will be wishing they never messed with all 5’2” of me.  Okay, 5’1”.

But that’s in my head.  Reality is that I’m a pull-the-covers-over-your-head and brush-it-under-the-rug kind of person.  My palms become sweaty. My voice shakes. I become totally exposed and vulnerable.  The narrative I’ve mentally rehearsed comes out in the form of tears streaming down my face.  For the longest time I’ve viewed it as a weakness.  A flaw in my character that I can so easily become the punching bag and not the one handing out blows.

But the truth is, I think my inability to verbalize spiteful or harmful words isn’t a weakness at all.  Words are powerful.  They don’t bounce – they stick.  They can’t be retracted or taken back.  Once gossip or something negative leaves your mouth and lands on the ears of the recipient, you’ve risked them being twisted, repeated, or worse, remembered.

My honest prayer is that I use my words wisely.  To think before speaking.  To not judge someone because they sin differently than I do.  To let them marinate before I just spit them out.  To remember that if they are going to stick to someone, let them be words of encouragement, positivity and empowerment.  Let my words do good and not damage.  If what I have to say isn’t kind or delivered in a gentle manner, then let me be quiet.

Someone who has filled my life with the most inspiring words is Dorothy.  If ever I doubt myself as a wedding planner, doubt my ability to make another person happy or doubt what I’m doing with my life, I can count on Dorothy to remind me that I’ve done something right.  Her wedding was incredible.  Full of rustic details.  Full of personalization.  Full of romance.  Full of gratitude.

Dorothy did the work.  She hired her vendors.  She collected her decor.  She came to me for advice and guidance and on the wedding day, she trusted my team and me to bring it to life.  If you like a horse-drawn-carriage, dogs that serve as ring bearers, a wisteria Twilight-inspired draped pergola, wooden benches, hand painted programs, a vintage Volkswagen Beetle, mix-matched china and cotton napkins, carmel apple wedding favors or a reception set in the most elegant barn imaginable, this is the wedding for you.

I had the most enlightening experience getting to know Dorothy.  She has the most giving heart.  Evident by the souvenirs she sent to me from her trip to Dallas because she knew Chase was a Cowboys fan.  Her thoughtfulness is inspiring.  In addition to loving every minute of working with Dorothy, I can’t thank Brian Mullins Photography enough for the stunning pictures.  It was a pure delight to work with Brian and Jenn on the wedding day.

In a conflicted world, one positive word can outweigh a mountain of negativity.  I’ve had so many incredible clients, friends and family fill my inbox and phone with the sweetest sentiments recently.  This is my public declaration of thanks.  They have been impactful.  They have motivated me.  Your simple words have saved me.

P.S. – Be sure to check out Dorothy and David’s wedding featured on Southern Bride & Groom!

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Ceremony Location: Village Arboretum

Reception Location: The Fair Barn

Photographer: Brian Mullins Photography

Coordinator: Orangerie Events

Ceremony Music: Opus One and Army of Me

Carriage: Carriage Tours of Pinehurst

DJ: A+ DJ Service

Caterer: Southern Harvest Catering Company

Cake: The Bakehouse

Cupcakes: BlueBird Cupcakes

Rentals:  Heirloom Vintage China Hire + Richmond Rentals and Sales

xoxo, Priscilla
Sweet Summer Wedding at The Stockroom in Raleigh

If someone could tell me why my email is acting like a complete and total spaz, I would seriously give you an amazing treat.  Not like a pat on the back.  An actual delicious and enjoyable reward.  I spent more than an hour yesterday re-organizing 243 emails.  Emails that I had already put in their designated folder and yet somehow managed to sneak out and take up shop in my inbox.  Even today, I’ll delete an email and five minutes later it’s right back in the inbox like I never sent it to the cyberspace graveyard.  Duplicating efforts ain’t my style, folks.

Speaking of sneaking out, some of my favorite memories from my childhood are wrapped into the time I spent with my cousins.  We were pre-teens and couldn’t think of anything being more exciting than sneaking out of her house to roam the rough streets of Hudson in the middle of the night.  We took all of the necessary precautions and devised a plan.  We put in “The Little Mermaid” on VHS, set the volume at the proper level to drown out our escape techniques, secured her dog Oreo and stuffed the bed full of pillows to make it look as though we were hiding under the covers.  We knew exactly where the motion detectors were and knew how to avoid them.  We knew the consequences of our actions.  But we also knew there was no possible way anyone would find out.

We carefully lifted her bedroom window, stepped onto the porch and quietly made our way down the stairs.  As our feet reached the pavement, we blasted full speed, running up the driveway and into freedom.  It was a rush of excitement.  The first taste of doing something you shouldn’t be doing and loving every minute of it.  We probably spent a whopping 15 minutes walking up and down the sidewalks of Hudson before we realized there was actually more to do inside her house than out.  Proud of our success, we fell asleep that night with sneaky smiles plastered on our faces.

We also fell asleep with paint on our shoes.  Unknown to either one of us, her parents had very recently re-painted the front porch and in the bright sunlight, the evidence was undeniable.  Tracks from our tiny Keds mapped out exactly what we had done the night before.

It wasn’t the last time we snuck out or did something silly.  And it certainly wasn’t the last time I did something to jeopardize someone’s trust in me.  It was my first lesson of many with trust.  Lessons I’m continuing to learn now.  Trust is such a fragile commodity.  It’s cultivated and nurtured over time and only takes one wrong move to destroy.  Or in this case, it just takes one step in the paint.

You can’t trust everyone.  Sometimes you can’t even trust yourself.  But here’s something you can trust.  Kim and Matt’s wedding at the Stockroom in Raleigh was nothing short of amazing.  Look at her glowing face.  And look how big she’s smiling.  I like to think it’s mostly because of Matt but perhaps a tiny bit is attributed to the fact that Kim was relaxed and free-spirited because she trusted me to do my job.  Kim’s handmade “LOVE” marquee sign inspired me to acquire one of my own that has now been used at multiple bridal shows and weddings.  And don’t even get me started on the lace backdrop.  It was gorgeous.  As always, I adored working with Brett and Jessica and find their moments captured by photography to be perfection.

Be sure to check out the incredible pictures from their special day.  Keep in mind, Kim now runs the cutest online shop where she sells some of the products featured at her wedding as well as other custom prints and handmade cards.  It’s called “Darling and Dear.”  Check it out.  It’s adorable.  Trust me.

 

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Ceremony & Reception: Stockroom 230

Photography: Brett & Jessica

Coordination: Orangerie Events

Catering: Simply Delicious Catering

Rickshaw: Crank Arm Rickshaw

Florist: Eclectic Sage - Heather Miller

xoxo, Priscilla
Intimate Wedding at The Fearrington in Pittsboro

I met Erica and Skip at their gorgeous home in Raleigh.  I knew we’d get along when she offered and insisted I enjoy a glass of vino with her while we talked.  The final result of our wedding planning differed drastically from the original plans we discussed sitting in her kitchen that evening.  We ended up at a different venue, using a different caterer and hosting it in an entirely different month.  Through all the changes, one thing stayed the same – the intimacy of their wedding.

Erica and Skip didn’t want the fuss of inviting everyone they knew plus those people’s cousins to their wedding.  They didn’t want an outrageous never-ending guest list.  They wanted it to be comfortable and personable and extended only to those people closest to them.  17 people to be exact.

Erica and Skip wanted an elegant yet rustic wedding and The Fearrington in Pittsboro provided the perfect backdrop.  Guests were greeted to the sounds of a soloist violinist and by a server offering champagne.  After an intimate ceremony in the garden, the guests moved inside for a fine-dining experience.  In a quiet, private room inside the Fearrington House, the couple and their closest friends and family enjoyed a five-course meal paired perfectly with the proper wines.  The table was set with a romantic display of candles, lanterns, fresh flowers and natural elements.  Small jars of jam served as place cards and each guest left with a personalized canvas tote filled with candy.  The main attraction?  That cake.  A beautiful display of baking artistry.  I was in love with the ruffled tier, the ombre color transition, the wooden cake stand and the birdie cake toppers.

Erica and Skip’s wedding was a perfect representation of who they are.  They make you feel at home.  They make you feel like you’ve known them forever.  They make you happy to be around them.  I’ll be forever grateful for the experience of working with them and will treasure getting to know them, their beloved dog and their obsession with red velvet cake that makes you cry.  They are the perfect example of what it means to put a marriage on display and not just showcase a wedding.

A special thanks to Krystal Kast for the gorgeous pictures.  Be sure to check out the video from Big Dog Little Bed Productions showcasing their wedding day.

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Venue + Food + Flowers + Cake: Fearrington

Planning + Design: Orangerie Events

Photographer: Krystal Kast Photography

Videographer: Big Dog Little Bed Productions

Officiant: Amanda Borchik

Make Up: Perfection by Patricia

xoxo, Priscilla